Cheryl Cole, the British pop star married to soccer star Ashley Cole (the Ashley Cole who cheated on her) graces the cover of the UK edition of Vogue this month, and she’s got a very levelheaded approach to why it’s okay her husband slept with a bunch of other women:

“Ashley’s young and he’s got a young mentality – for his age anyway… He’s learning. He has a beautiful soul, he’s a really nice guy and I’m not stupid, you know. I’m really not. I know what I’m doing. I’ve had enough knocks in the past to know what the circumstances are, and I’m happy. If other people aren’t, then that’s their problem.“

I’m gonna throw some pretty avant-garde ideas out here.  (1) People who insist they’re not stupid are usually pretty stupid.  (2)  People who follow that up with “I’m really not” really are.  (3) Women who are happy with their husbands who go off and sleep with other women are awesome.  I mean stupid.  Awesomely stupid?

(More Cheryl here and here)